In a normal, uncomplicated pregnancy, engaging in most sexual activities right up to the time that labor begins is possible. But it is always safe to seek and follow your doctor or midwife’s recommendation because they are the ones responsible for informing you if there are existing medical conditions that will prevent you from engaging in sex. Sexual activity is contraindicated in conditions such as placenta previa or premature rupture of membranes.
Responses to pregnancy vary. There are many women whose enjoyment of and response to sex is greatly increased during pregnancy. That does occur in many cases, especially during the second and third trimester when the tiredness and nausea have begun to abate. Sensation can be heightened at this time because blood circulation is already increased in order to sustain the baby. It is not unheard of that women who had been unable to achieve orgasm will be able to do so during pregnancy. In addition, some women and men find great freedom because as ironic as it may sound during this time, they are relieved of the fear of impregnation.
It is important to understand, however, that this does not hold true for all women. In some cases, the discomforts of pregnancy such as the increasing size, heartburn, swelling, and frequent urination may prevent a woman from engaging not only in sex but other everyday activities. Other times it can be the psychological adjustment to the changing body image. Unfortunately, in our size-conscious culture some people (either pregnant women or their partners) confuse the growing bump with other weight issues. If this is the case with you or your partner then sometimes these issues can be resolved with encouragement and loving support. The important thing though is to accept and accommodate any change in sexual appetite. The same communication skills such as listening, empathizing and accommodating the needs of others are quite useful.
Positioning is also important. Some positions for sexual intercourse that you may have enjoyed (almost been routine) before may not be possible anymore because of the increasing size of your bump. Do not let this discourage you. Spoons, woman on top, and rear-entry (doggy) are better during this time. There are a lot of other more imaginative ones as well if you take time to consult the Kamasutra.
Breasts are more sensitive during pregnancy. Stimulation of the breast and nipples especially during the final weeks of pregnancy may trigger contractions but these are likely to be the beneficial Braxton Hicks type that helps to soften the cervix and prepare your body for birth. Raise your specific concerns with your doctor or midwife especially if you have a previous history of premature labor.
There is absolutely no scientific or even valid anecdotal evidence of causing either physical or psychological harm to the unborn baby by engaging in sexual relations. Your cervix prevents any penetration from hurting the fetus throughout the complete term of a normal pregnancy. It may seem odd if your baby suddenly starts doing somersaults in there, but this is the result of your increased breathing and heart rate that results in a significantly noticeable proliferation of oxygenated blood to the baby.
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